喜欢镜子里的自己 你喜欢镜子里的自己吗？
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伊丽莎白・切利 15岁 ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF no matter what; love the person that you are and appreciate what God has given you. These are laws of life that are useful for everyone.I think that before people can live happy lives, they must believe in and accept themselves.The hardest thing for individuals to do is to look in the mirror and like what they see.Accepting yourself, being thankful for God"s gifts, and believing you can accomplish anything for which you strive is hard for all of us. To live a fulfilling life, you must start with believing in yourself as a person.
I have struggled with believing in myself so many times in my life. Struggling with little tasks such as completing homework or memorizing a piece on the piano, I would get so frustrated.You never realize how much easier your life becomes if you have confidence before you take on a task until you say,"I can do this!" Four or five years ago, I began taking piano lessons.Recital time was approaching, and I had a piece that I needed to memorize. Coming home with a feeling of frustration and poor attitude, I just knew I could not accomplish this task.I sat at my piano and told myself that I would never get it finished.What was supposed to be the memorization of a few lines of music is now a life lesson for me.I did end up finishing the piece,and the recital went smoothly.The important point is, looking back on this time in my life, I can see how important it is to know that you can accomplish anything you want to do if you try your best.Now, when I become frustrated with a piano piece, I never give up and think that I cannot do it.Always beginning with a positive attitude, I sit down and tell myself that I can accomplish my goal if I put my mind to it.I realize that I should have this attitude in everything I do.Never give up, believe that you can accomplish anything in which you put your mind and heart.
Love yourself, and like who you are.It is hard for many people to look in the mirror and like what they see.The media of today gives an image that many want to follow.Girls should be tall and perfectly skinny, and boys should be tall and extremely muscular.As a teenager, I fully understand all of these pressures that are put upon us.Every time I turn on the television or open a magazine, I see tiny, skinny little bodies that I think I should have.I have wasted more time wishing I could be someone else than I have living my life to its fullest.To this day, I would love to have the perfect body, but I must realize that I am as beautiful as any "perfect" girl on the cover of a magazine and that what counts the most is on the inside, not the outside.Teenagers are also faced with making decisions at their young age.Alcohol, drugs, and sex are so common for the average teenager.Although many people would laugh at and make fun of me because I have not indulged in these rebellious actions, I have learned that staying away from distractions makes me feel good about myself.I do not have to drink, do drugs, or have sex to be a popular and likeable person; I can be myself.Learning to love myself for who I am, not what I look like and what I do, has really made my life more pleasant and fulfilling. Everyone deserves happiness.It is vital to learn to appreciate and love yourself.
Appreciate God"s bountiful gifts that He gives you.I am blessed with so much when many are without shelter, food, and other necessities of life.As I sit and gripe because I do not anticipate receiving a car when I have my sixteenth birthday, there are children all over the world who would just like to have a meal to eat. Instead of dwelling on the luxuries that you do not have, think of those for which you are so thankful. These days, numerous people are self-involved.They care about no one but themselves. God put us on this earth to love and help one another, and so many of us continue to think about what we want.We could be spending more of our time thanking God for all of the wonderful blessings He has bestowed upon us.Think about the talents that you have, and know that God gave them to you for a reason.If you are a compassionate person, visit those in nursing homes with no family.A person with a beautiful voice should sing in a choir to make people smile.Thank God for all that He gives you, and use your talents to help others.
Always remember to believe in yourself, and challenges will seem easier.Love the person that you are,and don"t compare yourself to others; you are your own person. Be thankful for God"s gifts, and use your talents wisely.The key actions to a happy and fulfilling life are believing in yourself, loving who you are, and thanking God for what He gives you.If people lived by these laws of life as I strive to do, they would be content, productive, and fulfilled individuals.
无论如何，你都要相信自己，爱你自己这个人，珍视上帝赋予你的一切。这些是非常有益的“人生法则”。我认为人们必须相信自己、接受自己，只有这样才能过上幸福的生活。一个人最难做到的便是喜欢镜子里的自己。接受自己、感谢上帝的赐福、相信你能实现你的追求，这些对于我们大家都很难做到。要让你的生活充实而满足，首先应该对自己充满信心。
生活中，有多少次，为了相信自己，我拼搏过。即使是完成家庭作业、把一支钢琴曲练熟这样的小任务都要奋斗才行，但我老是灰心丧气的。如果在接受一项任务之前，你信心十足地说：“我能行!”你就会觉得生活轻松愉快。四五年
以前，我开始学习弹钢琴，独奏会的日期一天天临近，我还有一支曲子没有练熟。回到家中，我带着一副垂头丧气的样子，态度也很不积极，觉得自己不能完成这项任务。我坐在钢琴的旁边，告诉自己永远都不可能弹好。要记住那几小节乐曲的事情，现在竟成了我的人生教训。最后，我把乐曲完成得很好，独奏会也进行得非常顺利。回想起这段时间，重要的一点是我明白了这样一个道理：如果你竭尽全力去做你想做的事情，那你就一定能做到。现在，当我弹不好某段乐曲，感到灰心时，也决不放弃，决不认为自己做不到。首先要有积极乐观的态度，坐下来，对自己说，只要用心，就一定能实现自己的目标。我意识到无论做什么，都应该以这种积极的态度去做。千万不要放弃，要坚信只要专心致志，你想做的事情就都能做到。
你要爱自己，喜欢自己这个人。许多人都不喜欢镜子里的自己。当今的媒体提供了偶像，许多人纷纷效仿。女孩子应该是个子高高的，身材瘦瘦的；男孩子应该是身材高大，阳刚之气十足的。我是一个十几岁的孩子，可我也完全理解外界给自己施加的压力。每当我打开电视，或者翻开一本杂志的时候，总能看到小巧清瘦的身材，我认为自己也应该有这样的身材，并花费了很多时间渴望自己也能变个样，而不是将时间用在充实自己的生活上。直到今天，我也想拥有完美的身材，但是我必须清楚自己和杂志封面上的“完美”女孩一样美，必须知道重要的是人的内心，而不是外表。十几岁的孩子，小小的年纪，也会面临各种各样的选择，酒、毒品和性问题在一般青少年中是很普遍的现象，虽然好多人因为我对这些反叛行为不沾边而笑话我、嘲弄我，但是我明白远离各种诱惑才会使我感觉良好。要做一个受人欢迎、讨人喜欢的人，我不必一定要去饮酒、吸毒、追求性刺激；我会保持自己的本色，学会爱自己本来的样子，而不是因为我的模样、我的作为而爱自己，这样真的使我的生活更加快乐、更加充实了。每个人都有享受快乐的权利，重要的是学着赏识自己、爱自己。
对上帝赐予你的各种各样的天资，一定要知道珍视。在许多人没有吃的、住的，没有其他生活必需品的时候，我却幸运地拥有了许多。当我坐下来，为十六岁生日礼物中没有汽车而苦恼时，世界各地，有些孩子只是希望能吃上一顿饱饭。不要为不属于自己的荣华富贵浪费心思，多想想令你感激不尽的那些东西吧。目前，只顾自己的人数不胜数，他们除了自己以外，对谁都漠不关心。上帝将我们带到世上来，就是让我们相互爱护、相互帮助的，而我们好多人还是只考虑自己需要什么。我们本来是能够花更多的时间来感激上帝的，感谢他赐予我们美好的一切。要多想想你的天资，明白上帝给予你的一切都是有理由的。如果你是个有同情心的人，那你就到疗养院去看望那些没有家业的人；如果你的嗓子好，就应该到歌唱队唱歌给人们带去欢笑。感谢上帝赐予你的一切，并用你的天赋来帮助他人。
千万记住，如果你相信自己，难题就显得更容易。爱你自己吧，不要把自己跟别人相比，你就是你自己。你要是感谢上帝赐予的天赋，那就要多动脑筋，发挥自己的聪明才智。要使生活快乐而充实，关键是要相信你自己，爱你自己这个人并要感谢上帝赐予的一切。如果人们按照我所追求的“人生法则”生活，那他们自己就会感到心满意足、有成就感而且能充分发挥自己的才能。
