【纽约婚礼进行时】婚礼进行时婚庆公司

　　上期本刊特约记者杨思晴老师用美丽的文字，为我们现场转播了闺蜜婚礼仪式上有关爱的宣誓情景。本期邀请她继续纽约好友婚礼仪式的现场报道，现在是爱的致词和交换信物的场景了，让我们一起去看一下吧。
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　　Priest:At this time, I have a special reading for a couple. Before that, I want to say something special about these two. Normally I"ll meet my couples over in several occasions when the opportunity really meets ones face to face. We spoke on the phone quite a few times. What happens is, when I meet with couples as a priest, there"re lots of responsibilities when I perform in marriage for a couple. It"s not my choice whether they belong together as husband and wife, whether would I face to feel that love is true love, and if I would like to participate in it, and also give them opportunity might not like me, you never know... So one of the things I look for right off the bat, I use a couple techniques. What I do is... I asked them a lot of questions about themselves, giving them the opportunities to ask me questions. Go back and forth, and I looked for a couple of things.
　　牧师：现在，我为他们二人准备了一段特别的文字。在我朗读之前，我想跟大家谈谈他们二人的特别之处。一般来说，我和新人的接触方式有很多种，时机成熟时我们便会碰面。我和新人在见面之前通常会进行多次电话沟通。作为牧师，我每次以这个身份和新人见面时，我需要承担很多的责任。他们是否适合做夫妻，我是否能感受到他们对彼此那真挚的爱，我又是否愿意参与他们其中，给他们一个讨厌我的机会，这都不是我能选择的……我们永远无法猜到下一刻将会发生什么。为了解答我心中的一系列问题，我立刻要做的事情就是使用一些技巧。我是这么做的：我问了许多关于他们彼此的问题，并给他们机会向我发问。就这样，我来回发问，试图找到我想要的答案。
　　Priest:The three things that I looked for, is first, the communication between the two of them. How they answer questions, so on and so forth. Second, is the way they look at each other. And the third, when I ask questions about each other, how they speak of one another. Well. One of the things I noticed, when these two walked through the door immediately. The love they had for each other, you literally could feel it. Like all of us, It were all around them... I knew it right away. I want to participate in this. Second, with once again, the way they looked at each other, the course that we sat down and we spoke, I asked them questions, and one of the things I noticed right away was how they look at each other, they had a look of love in their eyes, that literally told me that these two had found their soul mates. The love is unbelievable. You could see it, just beaming from them. Second was communication. I would ask questions, (such as) growing up, questions about their parents, educational backgrounds, professional lives, how they met. We brought them to this wonderful day and their life together. One of the things I noticed right away, is they were basically on the same page, they knew literally what"s in each other"s head. Erik would start to answer questions, and Lingling would finish. (Lingling: do I ?) Lingling would start to say stop while Erik wouldn"t say a word. Right then at there I know it"s perfect. But what really touch me in many ways was, as I asked them questions about each other, I asked Erik several questions about Lingling and a couple of questions about Erik. Every time they would answer, they would look at each other and look back. It wasn"t the look of approval; it was the look of love. I knew that this was the beautiful thing.
　　牧师：我想了解的三件事是：一、他们彼此的沟通和交流，他们是如何回答我的问题的，等等。二、是他们注视对方的方式。三、当我问及到关于他们彼此的问题时，他们是如何替对方回答的。结果，我注意到一点，当他们推门而入的那一瞬间，你便可以真切地感受到他们对彼此的浓浓爱意。和我们一样，在他们俩身上，爱如空气，无处不在。我当即就意识到，自己愿意参与他们其中。说到第二点，他们注视彼此的方式。当我们坐下来谈话的时候，我问了他们很多问题。我注意到他们注视对方的时候，眼中充满无限的爱意。我清楚地发现，他们终于找到了生命中心心相印的另一半。这份爱是多么美妙？相信大家已从他们那里找寻到答案了。那是他俩身上散发出的爱的光芒。再说说他们的沟通方式。我问了有关于他们成长、父母、学业背景、工作经历及如何相遇等问题。接着我们特地挑选了这样美好的一天，来庆祝他们结为夫妻。我留意到，他们两人几乎驻足在相同的一页记录上。他们完全清楚对方在想些什么。艾瑞克通常会先回答问题，然后凌凌收尾。（凌凌小声问艾瑞克：我是这样吗？）凌凌若是示意停下来，艾瑞克不会再多说一个字。那时我就觉得，他们两人的结合太完美了。但真正让我倍受感染的是，每当我问到有关他们彼此的问题的时候，比如我问艾瑞克关于凌凌的事，问凌凌关于艾瑞克的事……每次他们回答问题的时候，都会先望向彼此然后再将目光转回到我这边。这种注视不是期许对方的应许，而是爱的表达。我觉得这才是最美的地方。
　　Priest:And that was how I found this reading, which is that I feel is appropriate for the two of them... This is called “This is where we belong together”...
　　牧师：这是为什么我会选择这篇读物的原因，因为我觉得这个篇章特别适合他们二人。这篇读物名为《这就是我们心灵的归属》。
　　Because whatever you smile, something deep inside me urges me to smile back.
　　Whenever I"m down, I hear laughter I come alive again.
　　Whenever I get too excited or agitated, you know how to calm me down.
　　I often catch myself watching your faces when you talk or listen to others.
　　Just seeing your reaction makes me happy.
　　每当你微笑的时候，体内的某种力量总会使我情不自禁回报以微笑。
　　每当我低落的时候，便会听到你的笑声，足以使我重新找到活力。
　　每当我异常兴奋或不安的时候，你总是知道如何使我心态平静。
　　每当你倾诉或聆听的时候，我喜欢这样紧紧注视你的脸庞。
　　只要看着你，我便会心满意足。
　　I know we belong together,
　　because when we talked, your softness has been sleeping with me for a while, or in something I never knew is there.
　　You"re the first person I want to see in the morning,
　　and the last one I want to turn to when things get rough.
　　The one I want to share my happiness with when things are going great,
　　the one who might trust my heart and my dreams.
　　我知道，我们是彼此心灵的归属。
　　我们互诉心事时，总有你的温存伴我左右，有时连我自己都未曾察觉。
　　你是我每天清晨第一个想见的人，
　　也是每次遭遇挫折时最不愿面对的那一个。
　　你是我开心的时候，最先想到与自己分享快乐的那个人，
　　你还是那个愿意相信我的心意、也相信我的梦想的人。
　　I know we belong together, because I have a faith in you. Unlike the faith I have in everyone else.
　　Because you bring out the best in me, just as I bring it out in you.
　　I know we belong together, because I want to love you, and do feel all that love and tales.
　　I want your happiness is as much as I want of my own if not more.
　　And this desire will never go away.
　　我知道，我们是彼此的心灵归属。因为我对你充满信心，而这份信任远远超过我对其他人的感觉。
　　是你使我变得更加美好，就像我也使你变得美好一样。
　　我知道，我们是彼此的心灵归属，因为我爱你，并深切地感受到这份爱意。
　　我希望你的快乐，至少要和我的快乐一样多。
　　这份心愿永不会消失
　　Erik: (To Lingling) You"re so beautiful.
　　艾瑞克：（对凌凌轻声说）宝贝你真是太美了。
　　Priest:Erik and Lingling, you have share of promises of our presents, do you have a token or symbol that you wish to exchange?
　　牧师：艾瑞克和凌凌，在我们大家的见证下，你们要交换信物吗？
　　Erik and Lingling: Yes, we do.
　　艾瑞克和凌凌：是的。
　　Priest: Lingling, will you take that candle and stay right here... and Erik take that one and stay here, and I will take that one... Light them together...
　　牧师：凌凌，能不能请你手拿蜡烛站在这边……艾瑞克，你拿着这支蜡烛站在那边……我拿着这支就好了。现在你们可以一起把蜡烛点燃了。
　　Erik: Okay.
　　艾瑞克：好的。
　　Priest: As this time, I"d like to participate in this spiritual ritual. We"re told that each one of us here is spot of bright light like a candle... Each of the candles represents the individuals the bright lights of Erik and Lingling. The individual souls separate and distinct, this is the visual expressions of the unity build of each other of our God. Hope the bright lights would give Erik and Lingling direction to begin with...
　　牧师：现在，我很乐于加入到这个神圣的仪式中来。据说我们在场的每个人，就像蜡烛一般，代表一个明亮的光点。每一根蜡烛象征着为艾瑞克和凌凌带去光芒的个人。每个人的灵魂截然不同，这是我们对于上帝使我们结合的最生动表述。希望这明亮的光芒可以为艾瑞克和凌凌的新生活指引方向……
　　Priest: (To the best man-Steve) Do you have the ring, sir? These aren"t the ones you showed me before... (Kidding)
　　牧师：（问向荣誉伴郎）戒指在你那里吗？…… 啊！这不是你刚才给我看的那两枚戒指呀！（开玩笑）
　　Priest: I, holding in my hands two rings, symbolic of love and commitment, to be given and receive, exponent of never ending all the friendships, circles of life and circles of love...
　　牧师：我手中紧握的两枚戒指，是爱和承诺的象征。 它们代表恒久的友谊，也象征着生命的轮回和爱的轮回……
　　Priest: (To Erik) turn to your best man, take the ring, and face to your bride and take her left hand. Please put it on Lingling and repeat these words:
　　牧师:（对艾瑞克）现在你可以从荣誉伴郎那里拿过戒指，然后转向你的新娘，将它戴在凌凌的左手上，然后跟我重复下面的话：
　　Erik: Okay.
　　艾瑞克：好的。
　　Priest: The wedding is the visible signs of this spiritual bond, which unite two lovers" heart and endless love.
　　牧师:婚戒是精神结合的象征，也是一对爱人心意的结合和爱的结合。
　　Priest: Please put it on Lingling" and repeat this words:
　　牧师:请为凌凌戴上戒指，并且重复下面的誓言：
　　Erik: This ring, without beginning of a ring, is the symbol of my undying love for you. I give you this ring, as I give you my heart, and very breath of my soul, for all the days of my life.
　　艾瑞克：这枚戒指，不仅仅是一枚戒指，它是我对你至死不渝的爱的象征。我为你戴上这枚戒指，同时也将我的心、我灵魂的每一次呼吸统统交付给你，直到永远。